I also went to my very first pole dancing class last night! This is my theory: The thinking brain is a very shitty dancer. The brain that speaks in my head doesn't know how to plant my right foot and swing the left leg around, use that momentum and spin. It doesn't even know left from right until I prepare for The Pledge of Allegiance. Apparently, just as every penguin has their own heart song, every woman has her own dance walk. You cannot THINK this walk, you have to feel it. My primal brain is an AMAZING dancer (my opinion!) It doesn't speak a language, it just feels, anticipates and moves. The primal brain is quiet and shy, and easily drowned out by the over achiever thinking brain. This is why I can dance better 1. alone 2. buzzed or 3. singing along to the music. These three environments keep the thinker busy or disarms it and lets my primal instincts out to do their thing.
Thursday I am going to simulate at least two elements of this environment. I am making a CD to bring in with Wanda Jackson's "You Don't Know" on it. This is THE sexiest song I have ever heard in my entire life. and Wanda Jackson is the epitome of my ideal alter ego. So raw and rockabilly!
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Thank you for sharing! I am loving her blog...I tend towards girlier pieces (i think because of a traumatizing pixie cut in grade school that left me dreading being mistaken for a boy...), but maybe now I will finally roll up my trouser cuffs and wade into menswear! I really like the idea from her/your first pic of doing a crop top thing with high-waisted pants.
Also, you are a rock star for taking a pole-dancing class. Keep us updated on disarming the thinking brain, please...so far my only dancing successes have required so much of option 2 that I don't remember them :)
Also, you are a rock star for taking a pole-dancing class. Keep us updated on disarming the thinking brain, please...so far my only dancing successes have required so much of option 2 that I don't remember them :)
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Great post! I hope you had fun at pole dancing! I love it myself which is why I started teaching it and have a pole in the living room! hahah!
I love mixing menswear with feminine pieces—you do it so well. Are you sore from the class? I have yet to try pole dancing!
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GREAT looks. Still so feminine underneath! Love the contrast.
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i love to dance, but have the same problem.
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Love meg's blog, she has such great style!xxx
Awesome post! You pull off this look very well :)
Okay, I guess it's time to come out of hiding. I almost did the other day when you talked about people who read your blog but never comment... You will love pole dancing. I thought it was so good for just learning how to get out of the thinking mind... let us know how it goes for you! BTW, love your blog, love your outfits, and love your coats (this from a fellow overcoat hoarder).
I laughed so hard reading about your thinking and primal brain! I am the same way, I guess I'm just so used to using the thinking part of my brain!!
I am so happy to hear that you enjoyed the class, I need to Just do it again, I think it would be liberating!
And I just adore your first outfit! Great menswear inspired look! xoxo Jolie
ohh, lots of different outfits in this post - i love it! i too am a much better (confident?) dancer when i'm dancing alone + have had a couple cocktails. Inhibitions are a bitch. I bet that class is so fun, though!
I love that you styled the shoes for the person who bought them! So nice!
I love all of your stylings for those shoes! That black button up lace dress/shirt is amazing! :) Fabulous as always!
I can feel another favourite blog working its way on to my list - this girl is gorgeous! I just LOVE that corsage belt worn high on the waist. So perfect.
love the daring outfit, you pull it off well
dance walk1? hmm, fascinating
My thinking brain is a shitty dancer? You make me laugh!
I love the top in the first photo. I'm totally going to dare to bare the midriff with summer- I'm thinking high waisted skirts and cropped tops. Too much?
i always wanted to take pole dancing lessons! i hear they're really good for you too! anyway, i hope this is helping you live your burlesque fantasy in every aspect!
Christina...I believe that some people can pull off the menswear styles and you are one of those people! I'm totally diggin your shoes! Pole dancing...hmm sounds like fun, I don't know.
By the way, I have an award for you on my blog, when you get a chance, please come get it! -Corie
Pole dancing.. how fun! Yea, I would assume you have to let out your inner sex temptress (Sasha Fierce?) and just let go..
You are hilarious, girl. Keep it up:D
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You're beautiful! I love the black lace number. I can't wait to check out your inspiration blog.
ah! pole dancing! i really want to take that class. but have never gotten around to it. instead took carmen electra's dvds home... probably not nearly as satisfying!
omg, meggstatus is adorable!!! thanks for sharing about her. i'd never visited her blog but i sure will now. and, dude, i totally have to be drunk or alone to dance. i know exactly what you mean:)
I love how you found a blogger you admire, and took some elements you liked of her style and made it your own. I think that is what's great about this blogging community -- we can draw inspiration from each other, and ultimately find ways to be ourselves.
- JoAnn, Sidewalk Chalk
PS I am so happy you're going to NYC!
You both look fantastic, and I adore your lace dress.
oh my gosh you are amazing! I was so excited to check it out after a long day at the hospital. Just kept thinking about my new pretty shoes! yea! thank you! Danielle
By the way- saw this contest and thought of you. You would rock it! Are you on Weardrobe yet??
http://www.weardrobe.com/contests/34
oh she's fabulous! i'm checking her blog out right after this!
you're such an inspiration too :)
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Great post!!I'm really liking all the outfits!!
I am so happy to have found this blog!
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What an amazing girl, thank you for the introduction!
Thank you for sharing! I am loving her blog...I tend towards girlier pieces (i think because of a traumatizing pixie cut in grade school that left me dreading being mistaken for a boy...), but maybe now I will finally roll up my trouser cuffs and wade into menswear! I really like the idea from her/your first pic of doing a crop top thing with high-waisted pants.
Also, you are a rock star for taking a pole-dancing class. Keep us updated on disarming the thinking brain, please...so far my only dancing successes have required so much of option 2 that I don't remember them :)
thank you for introducing me to that rad blog!!
you look amazing and good for you for trying pole dancing!
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